There are many ways that parents can help to make their son's or daughter's transition to work as smooth as possible.
Set Realistic Goals
Include your son or daughter in setting goals for the future, and make sure that the school program prepares him or her to meet those goals. All students need to gain independent working and living skills.
Encourage Independence
Parents are not always going to be around. Begin to encourage independent travel, self-care activities, money management, and decision-making now. Some young adults may need support, but it's never too soon to begin developing these skills.
Gather Information About Transition Issues
Decisions will have to be made about such matters as benefits, health insurance, guardianship, health care, driving, etc., based upon the person's needs and abilities, family values and the resources available to help with each issue.
Familiarize Yourself with the Adult Service System
Parents need to become informed about available programs and the eligibility criteria for each one. Starting early can make sure that the transition from school to adult services is smooth.
Build Self-Esteem
Help prepare your son or daughter for the future. Teach him or her the skills that will be needed in the real world, such as doing laundry, preparing simple meals or sewing on a button. If you have confidence in your daughter or son, your daughter or son will have confidence, too.
Develop Social Skills
Everyone needs to be comfortable in social situations. Young people with disabilities need opportunities to develop social skills through sports, recreation, after-school clubs and leadership opportunities. Look into the resources in your local community for recreational opportunities.
Provide Real Experiences
Everyone needs to gain experience in work situations. If your child has an Individualized Education Plan (IEP), work should be addressed at the IEP Team meeting (also called a PPT) and incorporated into the IEP. Parents should also look for ways to provide work experiences outside of school.
Encourage Good Grooming and Work Habits
Take time to emphasize the importance of appropriate dress, good grooming skills, punctuality, reliability and hard work.
Foster the Acceptance of Criticism
Teenagers can be sensitive to even the mildest criticism. Young people must learn to cope with the standards of the workplace and with unfair criticism. Practicing acceptable responses to criticism needs to begin early.
Provide Opportunities to Manage Money
Teenagers should be paid for their work. Gradually introduce money management. Encourage your son or daughter to shop using his or her own money and to learn budgeting skills.
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